Sex week
boston 2025
Event schedule
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Sunday, May 11
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11:00 am
Doors close at 11:30 amEl Barco (Back Bay)
$20/person, plus the cost of an entreeMamma Mia Here We Go Again!
Sing along to all of your favorite ABBA songs at Mamma Mia Drag Brunch.
Get ready for a BLAST of a time.
It's Mother's Day, so bring your mom!
All guests must purchase an entree.
Please Note: To be guaranteed group seating, ALL tickets MUST be purchased under the same name. We will try our best to accommodate groups of tickets purchased at different times. We recommend arriving 15 minutes before show time to make sure your entire party can be sat together. If not, your group may be sat in different areas.
Guests under 21 cannot be sat at the bar.
Parties of three or less maybe sat at community tables.
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5:30 - 8:00 pm
Doors open at 5:00 pmDorchester Brewing Company (Dorchester)
Sliding scale tickets at the door. No one turned away.21+ event
Have you ever felt like your education on sexual anatomy was missing something? Curious to learn more about the amazing anatomy of the vulva? Have you heard the buzz in the media about G-spots, squirting, and which orgasms are the best, and find yourself wondering what’s true? (Spoiler: they’re all real!) Sex Educator Allyssa will unravel the mysteries and share exciting techniques for exploring all the joys that vulvas have to offer! We’ll cover anatomy and pleasure, dive into how the muscles and nerves come together during orgasm, explore what squirting really is and how to achieve it, plus some awesome masturbation and hand sex techniques to try on your favorite consenting vulva. Can't wait to see you there!
Centering queer and trans bodies makes for better sex ed. All identities welcome.
There will be condom and lube and sex toy giveaways! A portion of the proceeds will go to an organization TBD.
Dorchester Brewing Company serves beer, wine, cider, seltzer, and non-alcoholic options. There is food available from M&M BBQ for you to enjoy dinner before or during the event! Come early, to grab a drink, some food, and spend time in community. The formal workshop begins at 6pm.
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7:00 pm - 8:30 pm
Arts at the Armory (Somerville)
$12.51, $15 at the doorRoya Hamadani, ever the fearless satirist, has gifted the universe with a character so gloriously ridiculous he practically hemorrhages irony—enter Mr. Tampon Man.
But this time, Mr. Tampon Man gets a thrilling plot twist: he's being portrayed by Ira Claybourne stand-up comic with razor- sharp wit. Co-host Steph Dalwin will keep this cotton pony on his toes!
The show encompasses experiences of new bleeders, bleedy bleeders, and ex and about to be ex-bleeders.
Expect laughs, expect truth bombs, and above all, expect to never look at a tampon box—or a fragile ego—the same way again.
Hosted By:
Ira Claybourne & Steph Dalwin
Featuring:
Carrie Coughlin
Kristina Feliciano
Emily Goldstein
Amma Marfo
Sarah May
Emily Mu
Brought To You By:New Normal Productions & MOOISH Productions
We will be collecting menstrual products for donation!
Monday, May 12
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7:00 - 9:00 pm
Virtual
$20/personMany people with vulvas have had limited—and sometimes inaccurate—education about their bodies and how they function.
Join us as we uncover how and why our bodies work, fostering greater confidence, joy, and pleasure.
Tuesday, May 13
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7:00 pm
Tiki Rock Boston (Downtown)
$10 suggested donation. No one will be turned away.What’s a SMUT SLAM? I’m so glad you asked! It’s a fast-paced storytelling open mic based on REAL life, REAL lust, REAL sex. Consenting Slammers sign up on the night of to tell a 5-minute dirty story, based on their real lives, and a lucky 8-10 names will be drawn at random. A panel of celebrity judges will be on hand to evaluate your stories, and bestow the top three Slammers with a sack of sexy swag from Good Vibrations Harvard Square . You will also have the opportunity to win goodies from NJOY by submitting your anonymous questions and confessions!
RULES:
No notes! This is storytelling.
No costumes or props! This is not theatre.
Only 5 minutes! (With a 1 minute grace period)
The story must be real and have happened to YOU.Stories are often funny and/or epic win but we want to encourage people to consider sharing their sad, disturbing, poignant, serious, simple and/or ‘fail’ experiences too.
TAKE NOTE:
Smut Slam is queer-friendly, kink-friendly AND vanilla-friendly, fat-friendly, poly-friendly… Yes, we are very friendly. We welcome people with all types and amounts of sexual experiences to our space. We DO NOT welcome stories involving racism, transphobia, homophobia, sexism or any form of discrimination, fetishization or objectification. Also, CONSENT IS KEY.SMUT SLAM was CREATED by Cameryn Moore, an award-winning playwright/performer, sex activist and educator. Find Cameryn being NSFW on Facebook, or at www.camerynmoore.com.
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Event page coming soon!
5:30 - 7:30 pm
MGH Sexual Health Clinic (Downtown)
Join us for an engaging conversation at the intersection of queer history, sexual health, and communication. We’ll explore the cultural significance of the hanky code, strategies for clear and empowered sexual communication, and a conversation on PrEP and Doxy-PEP.
STI testing will be available.
Wednesday, May 14
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6:00 pm Sex Pros Meetup
7:00 pm Sex Trivia!Long Live Beerworks (Roxbury)
$15/person ($10/student)Join Mer-Made for Pleasure and Pleasure Pie to test your sex-know-how!
May is Masturbation Month! This year marks the 30th anniversary of this sex-positive celebration. Masturbation Month, started by activists and Good Vibrations retailers in 1995, was a response to the forced resignation of Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders after she stated that masturbation “is something that is a part of human sexuality and… something that perhaps should be taught” in sex-ed classes. Read more about the history here.
Create a team (maximum 5-6 people), and flex your most important pleasure organ - your brain!We’ll have some sexy prizes for the winning team, as well as some fun prizes for Best Team Name, Most Creative (and wrong) Answer, and more!
We will also host a raffle, with funds going to support queer affirming sexuality education, as well as a social justice org TBA.
If you're working in or interested in working in the sexuality field, join us for our quickie Sex Pros Meet Up right before trivia! Sexuality pros of all stripes are invited—sex educators, sex toy slingers, sex workers, sex researchers, sexual healthcare providers, sexual assault prevention coordinators, reproductive rights activists, queer community organizers, etc.
Max 5-6 people per teamWheelchair accessible. Located within a mile of Nubian Sq. and Mass Ave and Melnea Cass Blvd. Parking lot and George St parking available.
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6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Side Quest Books (Somerville)
$7/personFanfiction has long been a space for exploring sexuality, relationships, and identity outside mainstream narratives. This event will examine the role of smut and fanfiction as a tool for self-discovery, pleasure education, and community-building. Through an interactive discussion, we will explore how erotic fanfiction challenges traditional sexual norms, empowers marginalized voices, and fosters sex-positive conversations. This event will celebrate the transformative power of storytelling in sexual empowerment and education.
This event is open to anyone interested in fanfiction, sex education, and storytelling, particularly those curious about how fiction can shape real-world conversations around intimacy and pleasure. No prior experience with fanfiction is necessary.
The event will include a mix of guided conversation, audience participation, and an optional creative exercise where attendees can reflect on or craft their own short fanfic scene. Whether you're a longtime fanfic reader, writer, or just curious, this event will offer a fun and thoughtful space to explore the power of smut.
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Event page coming soon!
7:00 pm
El Jalisco Mexican Grill (Somerville)
Cost of food/drinksCalling all Latinx in Boston! Join us for an educational mixer! There will be activities, games, and raffles centered around learning about healthy sexuality!!! In English, Spanish, and Spanglish.
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Doors at 7:00 pm / Show at 8:00 pm
Jacque’s Cabaret (Downtown)
$15A queer burlesque show highlighting the wide spectrum of identities in our community. Hosted by FemMenThem Queer Cabaret.
👽 Aliens. Glitter. Gyrations. 🍑 Femmenthem goes galactic! 🛸 Prepare for a zero-gravity cabaret full of space-age seduction 💋 and celestial magic. 🌠 Don’t be late for liftoff 🚀
21+
Thursday, May 15
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8:30am - 4:00pm
Newton, MA (Accessible by the MBTA)
$225/person ($175/student)The Partners in Sex Ed Community Conference is a full day conference for aspiring and experienced sex, health and wellness educators.
We are excited to announce the re-launch of our annual sex ed conference. Now more than ever we need community solidarity and the skills to support all of our students in an increasingly hostile world.
Are you in the process of updating your Health Ed curriculum to align with new frameworks and standards? Are you unsure of how to advocate for your work with your school committee? Do you need some fresh new lesson plans to energize your curriculum? Do you wish you had more colleagues to share materials and strategies with? This conference is for you.
Join us for a day filled with insightful sessions, engaging workshops, and networking opportunities. Whether you're a seasoned educator or just starting out, this conference is designed to enhance your knowledge and skills in the field of sex education. Connect with other educators and health teachers, exchange ideas, and gain valuable resources to take back to your classroom. Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to grow and learn with us!
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7:00 - 10:00 pm
72 Joy St. (Somerville)
$15-30/person sliding scale. Scholarships available, so don’t let the ticket price be the reason you don’t come.Come join two growing communities for an evening of Japanese-inspired rope bondage (shibari) modeling and figure drawing. We’ll discuss some of the consent and negotiation involved in bondage play and then demonstrate some aesthetic rope ties for your drawing pleasure!
Snacks and drawing materials will be provided. Cost is on a sliding scale based on your ability to pay and recognition of structural privileges: $15-$35 (scholarships available, so don’t let the ticket price be the reason you don’t come!)
You don’t have to be kinky to enjoy seeing the masculine body tied in new shapes. You don’t have to be good at drawing to enjoy looking and watching.
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7:30 - 9:30 pm
Upstairs at Bow Market (Somerville)
$23.18 - $33.85 sliding scaleHalf a Mind Comedy presents BAZONGAS! - an evening of standup comedy at Upstairs at Bow in Somerville, MA, featuring jokes about boobs and more by people who have, have had, or wish to have boobs.
Our lineup consists of our brilliant headliner, Janelle Draper, our amazing comics Ang Buxton, Mel Moscoso, Lj, and Steph Dalwin, and our dashing co-producers Shruti Datari, Kathleen Meditz, and Alyssa Shore.
This show will run for 60-90 min and will feature 5-6 comics.
Net proceeds from BAZONGAS! will go to Point of Pride trans surgery fund, which provides scholarships to trans folks who are seeking gender affirming surgery.
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Event page coming soon!
6:45 - 8:00 pm
Cambridge Community Center (Cambridge)
Empowering Identities is a genderqueer and asexual music experience with Miss Christine. During the presentation, band leader Christine Moad (they/them) discusses terms relevant to the genderqueer/ace perspective, offers educational resources for those who share one or both of these identities, and provides insights they’ve gleaned from their own journey to aid those in the LGBTQIA+ community who might be questioning or newly out.
Christine also gives tips for allies who want to better understand and support people with those identities. After the presentation, Miss Christine puts on a private concert for attendees.
Christine has given this presentation at youth organizations and colleges across the Northeast and Midwest and they are excited to share this firsthand knowledge with you and your audience.
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7:30 - 10:00 pm
Jamaica Plain. Exact location will be given to confirmed ticket holders.
$10-45/person sliding scale.Curious about kink but not sure where to start? Join SBC for an introductory workshop on kink exploration! In this discussion-based class with roosiieebee, we will cover the journey into kink, how to keep yourself safe as you venture outside your comfort zone, and commonly used vocabulary. We will also discuss setting expectations for yourself and others and simple rules of thumb to follow.
This workshop is designed for those new to kink, whether you're brand-spanking-new (pun intended), stepping outside the bedroom and into the community for the first time, or venturing into different areas of kink. We encourage participants to come to this class with an open mind and connect with others at similar stages in their kink journey. If you're unsure whether this class is for you, feel free to reach out to us!
The venue is located in Jamaica Plain, Boston, MA.
IMPORTANT POLICY INFROMATION
All event details (including address) will be sent out 7 days before the event and 1 day before the event. Please add smartbostonco@gmail.com to your address book so our email doesn't go to your spam folder. If you purchased your ticket after the first confirmation email is sent, you may not receive the address until the day before.
Ticket sales will close at 12:00 PM the day before the event. No ticket sales will be processed after this time.
What to Bring
A notebook and writing utensil.
A mat or blanket to sit on.
Please note - Yoga mats will be available for rent at the venue for $3. Free blankets and yoga bolsters will be available for class use.
Venue, Accessibility, & Transportation
The class space is on the third floor of the building. There is currently no elevator access.
The studio is shoe-free. Shoes must be removed before entering the studio space. There are multiple shoe racks right outside the studio door.
There are two bathrooms - one is only for femmes on the third floor, one is a single-stall gender neutral bathroom on the second floor that requires a key from the front desk to access.
The venue is a 10 minute walk from the Green Street stop on the Orange Line or a 2 min walk from the 41 & 39 bus stops.
Parking is available at City of Boston Municipal Lot #6 on Burroughs Street. It's free and only a 2-3 minute walk away. There is also free street parking available near the venue.
Dress Code
This is a discussion-based event. We recommend wearing clothes that are comfortable to sit and relax in. No nudity is permitted at this event.
Tickets & Payment Options
Payments will be processed through Eventbrite with sliding scale pricing. All tickets provide the same entry (1 person per ticket) to the event. Pricing is access-based, not "pay what you want". If you benefit from systemic privilege, please consider paying more.
Health and Safety
Attendees of all events are encouraged to be fully vaccinated and boosted. We also encourage folks to practice regular at home testing before events to ensure you are COVID negative. Attendees are required to STAY HOME from any event, and notify organizers of their absence, if they are feeling at all ill.
About the Presenter
Roosiieebee (Rosie, she/her) is a switchy polyamorous pansexual who first tied someone up over 10 years ago. She enjoys bringing her chaotic energy to rope scenes whether she’s tying or being tied. A born and bred New Englander, she’s Boston based and part of SMart Boston Collab, and loves spending time doing kinky, witchy, Jewish shit. She’s passionate about exploring inclusivity in rope, particularly representation of fat folks and bodies of all different abilities.
Friday, May 16
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6:00 - 8:00 pm
Wild Child (Somerville)
$28.52/personGot sex questions? Jeremiah and Julia, licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists, are here to answer sexual health related questions you might have. No conversation is too explicit for these two.
Are you curious how to open your relationship up for the first time? Do you want to know what really happens at a sex club? Or maybe you're not sure how to initiate sex with your partner. This event will be more roundtable dialogue, less professional presentation.
Bring your sex questions, and get ready for a good time!
Saturday, May 17
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10:30 am - 12:30 pm
$40/person suggested donation ($20-70 sliding scale)Central Square (Cambridge)
Join Jo (they/them) at Queer Body Collective for a two hour partner massage workshop. Bring your romantic partner, your platonic bestie, or your throuple and practice some new techniques for soothing your bodies and reducing aches and pains.
We'll listen to our bodies, practice consent, and leave a little lighter and looser.
We can focus on things the group wants, could be best spots for headaches, reducing swelling, or post surgery or scar massage.
Bring a yoga mat, a blanket, and a small pillow if you can, we will have a few available to borrow. We'll have some massage tools to play around with.
Queer and trans bodies centered.
Masks are required!
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12:00 - 2:00 pm
Boston Public Library - Central Branch (Copley Square)
Free!Hosted by Lesbos, Boston's Lesbian Newsletter! @lesbosnews
Join us for an introductory zine making workshop, with a twist! This zine making workshop is dedicated to engaging with Boston's lesbian history. Each participant will be given an envelope containing information, images, facts, and other clippings related to an aspect of Boston's lesbian history (such as a figure, event, or location). You'll then have the creative freedom to share each story by making a zine!
We'll have plenty of fun craft supplies too, and a demonstration on how to fold your zine. We’ll even make a scan of your zines to print more copies and share them through Take a Zine, Leave a Zine boxes across Boston—so others can learn and engage with local history as well!
Whether you're new to zine-making or looking to expand your skills, this workshop is the perfect opportunity to create, share, and connect with local queer history + zine community!
Note: While the history explored in this workshop explores the lesbian identity, all are welcome to participate.
This event is FREE though space is limited, so please RSVP + update if you can no longer make it.
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7:30 - 9:30 pm
All She Wrote Books (Somerville)
$10-20 sliding scaleA hybrid literary reading, sharing space, and generative writing workshop event with the focus being SEXTING by sex workers.
Madison and L will open with readings from their sex-heavy publications and ideally have a moderated Q & A with another queer, sex-positive writer friend.
We will then invite participants to share their real life sexts into an "open mic," where we provide (funny, friendly) feedback as writers and sex workers.
We’ll end the event with a generative writing prompt to help people turn their IRL dialogues into erotic stories. We will be available for feedback, guidance, FAQs etc after the workshop.

Sunday, May 18
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11:00 am - 2:00 pm
The Annex at the Charles River Speedway (Brighton)
$19.99-$34.99 sliding scaleRomance readers can all name at least one book containing sex scenes that make us blush or giggle. But what makes for good smut? Taught by instructor Megan Hennessey, this writing workshop will show you how to write scenes that will make you sweat, while also revealing character, moving the story forward, and heightening tension. Be sure to bring your notebook, laptop, and/or other preferred writing tools! You'll be able to write your own scenes at the end of the workshop. Stay to network with other romance fans and browse titles at Read My Lips Boston's romance pop-up bookshop!
Tickets include a workshop seat, a selection of tea & pastries from co-sponsor Rite Tea & Espresso, and private shopping from Read My Lips Boston.
A discounted $19.99 ticket
7 available on a first-come, first served basis. In an effort to make this class more accessible for those experiencing economic challenges, we're offering 7 discounted tickets. If you are financially able, please consider paying the base ticket price or the "pay it forward" price, listed below.
Base ticket price: $29.99
This ticket price covers the cost of our event space and paying our presenter and booksellers a fair wage.
"Pay it forward" price: $34.99
For those who are able to "pay it forward"! This tier makes it possible for us to offer discounted tickets.
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12:00 - 2:00 pm
Aeronaut Brewing Company (Somerville)
$35 adult, $30 teacher, $25 studentDid your Health Ed class leave a lot to be desired? Get the inclusive, engaging Sex Ed you never got—but always needed! From reproductive anatomy and birth control to navigating health resources, this interactive workshop will boost your health literacy and connect you with a like-minded community.
It takes a H.I.V.E. to address gaps in adult health literacy!
As part of Sex Week Boston 2025, The H.I.V.E. Collective will provide inclusive, justice-centered education that affirms all genders, sexualities, desires, and relationship structures. Rooted in intersectional liberation, this workshop challenges systemic barriers to sexual health knowledge while fostering empowerment through health literacy and community connection. With a focus on consent, accessibility, and equity, we create a space where everyone can learn, ask questions, and celebrate sexual freedom.
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2:00 - 3:30 pm
The Meeting Point (Jamaica Plain)
$10-20 sliding scaleLearn more about the impact of pelvic floor health on sexual function! Suitable for all genders/bodies, we'll go over pelvic floor anatomy, pelvic floor tips for better sex, dealing with pain with sex, and what a trauma-informed perspective to pelvic health and sex can look like.
Join us for a queer and trans affirming pelvic health workshop!
Learn more about the impact of pelvic floor health on sexual function! Suitable for all genders/bodies, we'll go over pelvic floor anatomy, pelvic floor tips for better sex, dealing with pain with sex, and what a trauma-informed perspective to pelvic health and sex can look like.
This workshop will be capped at 12 participants to accommodate the space. If you sign up, please come! If you sign up and realize you can't come, please let us know as soon as possible.
This workshop will take place at The Meeting Point, 3464 Washington St, Jamaica Plain, in the Bodywork room. The Meeting Point is wheelchair accessible.
No one will be turned away for lack of funds.
Email hello@mirahsand.com with any questions.
Masks are required